Between Chemistry and Commitment

With sexual chemistry, you come alive in the presence of another person. What if that person isn’t your partner?

With a strong commitment, you protect your relationship from tempting threats that steal power and passion from your intimate connection.

Do you need to strengthen your commitment and chemistry with your partner?

Find out with this Love Test. Answer each question YES or NO.

Do I complain or criticize my partner’s flaws, instead of complimenting their strengths?

Do I invest more energy and time in my work than I do with my partner?

Do my favorite activities exclude my partner?

Do I have erotic thoughts about someone outside of my relationship?

Do I avoid making love with my partner and deny us the benefits of sexual healing?

Do I talk negatively about my partner to others?

Does someone other than my partner lift my spirits and inspire my greatness?

Do I act moody or grumpy around my partner?

Do I place my needs ahead of my partner’s and the needs of our relationship?

Do I feel that my partner can’t make me happy?

How did you score?

Each YES reveals attitudes and actions that steal power and passion from your relationship.

Each YES reveals a weakness in your commitment to improve your interactions with your partner and create a life and relationship you love.

Each YES pounds a nail in the coffin of your dying relationship.

Each NO reveals attitudes and actions that spark chemistry with your partner and strengthen the commitment that keeps love alive for a lifetime.

Which attitudes and actions will you choose, if you want to build a life and relationship you love with your partner?

Do you see how your daily choices cause you to grow apart and let love die?

Do you care enough about your partner and your relationship to make daily choices that revive the sexual chemistry you’ve lost and restore happy, sexy love that lasts?

Relationship Success formula: Keep doing what works and stop doing what doesn’t work.

Now you know how to improve your interactions with your partner by doing what works, even if they refuse to do this with you. Don’t take my word for it. Prove it to yourself. Start doing what works every day to break out of dull, negative ruts that kill relationships and bring out the best in yourself, your beloved partner and your intimate connection.